<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345012504428610292</id><updated>2012-02-16T03:53:11.338-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Sh'ma Koleinu--Voices of the SR Fellowship</title><subtitle type='html'>Future leaders of the Reform and Conservative movements learning together in the cross-denominational Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program share their views about Torah and the American Jewish community.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>The Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02174074079676088703</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>11</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345012504428610292.post-2449191563520517184</id><published>2011-08-22T21:16:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-22T21:16:45.245-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Mazal Tov to the First Class of Schusterman Rabbinical Fellows!</title><content type='html'>Mazal tov to the members of the the Aleph (inaugural) cohort of the Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship!  All were recently ordained by &lt;a href="http://www.huc.edu"&gt;HUC-JIR&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.jtsa.edu"&gt;JTS&lt;/a&gt;, and despite a very challenging job market for rabbis, every member of the group found rabbinic positions at leading institutions across the country.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Their post-graduation job placements are as follows:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://orl.usc.edu/about/personnel/ethan-bair.html"&gt;Rabbi Ethan Bair&lt;/a&gt;-- Director of Jewish Student Life, University of Southern California, Los Angeles, CA&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://templeemunah.org/staff/fel/"&gt;Rabbi Michael Mauricio Fel&lt;/a&gt;—Assistant Rabbi, Temple Emunah, Lexington, MA&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://http://www.sinaitemple.org/about_us/clergy.php"&gt;Rabbi Jason Fruithandler&lt;/a&gt;—Assistant Rabbi, Sinai Temple, Los Angeles, CA&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://http://www.emanuelhouston.org/leadership/clergy/"&gt;Rabbi Samantha Orshan Kahn&lt;/a&gt;, Assistant Rabbi, Congregation Emanu El, Houston, TX&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http:///www.whctemple.org/our_clergy.htm"&gt;Rabbi Aaron Miller&lt;/a&gt;—Assistant Rabbi, Washington Hebrew Congregation, Washington, DC&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://http://www.princeton.edu/hillel/about-us/staff/"&gt;Rabbi Sara Newman Rich&lt;/a&gt;—Jewish Educator, Princeton University Hillel, Princeton, NJ&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://http://www.jaxjewishcenter.com/Public/About_Clergy_Overview.aspx"&gt;Rabbi Jesse M. Olitzky&lt;/a&gt;---Assistant Rabbi, Jacksonville Jewish Center, Jacksonville, FL&lt;br /&gt;Rabbi Deborah Zuker –Rabbi, &lt;a href="http://www.templenertamid.org"&gt;Temple Ner Tamid&lt;/a&gt;, Peabody, MA &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8345012504428610292-2449191563520517184?l=www.srfellowship.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/feeds/2449191563520517184/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2011/08/mazal-tov-to-first-class-of-schusterman.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/2449191563520517184'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/2449191563520517184'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2011/08/mazal-tov-to-first-class-of-schusterman.html' title='Mazal Tov to the First Class of Schusterman Rabbinical Fellows!'/><author><name>The Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02174074079676088703</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345012504428610292.post-2575594704908834797</id><published>2011-08-22T20:13:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-22T20:13:25.276-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Engaging Volunteers for a New Kind of Jewish Community</title><content type='html'>The Gimmel cohort of the Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship just finished up a retreat focused on creating a vision, managing strategic change, and working with volunteers and a board in a synagogue setting.  David Spinrad, an SR Fellow from  &lt;a href="http://huc.edu"&gt;HUC-JIR&lt;/a&gt; in Cincinnati, shared these reflection about the gathering: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's morning, and I'm at my desk. I arrived home last night from our August retreat at the &lt;a href="www.pearlstonecenter.org/"&gt;Pearlstone Center&lt;/a&gt; in Maryland, but instead of feeling tired from the travel, I feel energized by the experience and encouraged by our subject matter. We covered a great amount of material in a relatively short time, focusing primarily on community building through creatively engaging members of the congregation and we also dug deeply into the mission, vision and values of our congregational communities. It felt great to be in a setting with other passionate people, talking, brainstorming and dreaming of what we can do to help the Jewish community and our communities at large pulse with life and meaning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the heart of the forty-eight intense hours we fellows spent with &lt;a href="http://www.ellenflax.com"&gt;Rabbi Ellen Flax&lt;/a&gt;, synagogue and non-profit consultant &lt;a href="http://hayimherring.com/blog/"&gt;Rabbi Hayim Herring&lt;/a&gt; and the innovative volunteer strategist &lt;a href="http://www.jffixler.com/"&gt;Jill Friedman Fixler&lt;/a&gt; a thought kept spinning around my head and continues to fill me now: We can either see the world and our Jewish communities as they are, or we can practice holding and envisioning them as they might be. Or, maybe, there exists a third path, a middle path, a quintessentially Jewish path that requires courage, chutzpah and even a willingness to fail in order to breathe new life into Jewish life. We can think differently about our communities, our people, our institutions and how we live out our eternal brit. Our world is challenging us to both stand strong in our devotion to God, Torah and Israel and demanding from us a willingness to articulate this relationship with a vision that speaks specifically to where we'll be tomorrow.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8345012504428610292-2575594704908834797?l=www.srfellowship.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/feeds/2575594704908834797/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2011/08/engaging-volunteers-for-new-kind-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/2575594704908834797'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/2575594704908834797'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2011/08/engaging-volunteers-for-new-kind-of.html' title='Engaging Volunteers for a New Kind of Jewish Community'/><author><name>The Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02174074079676088703</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345012504428610292.post-4429009696946088837</id><published>2011-02-03T17:02:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-02-03T17:02:56.511-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Gender Norms and the Clergy</title><content type='html'>SR Fellow Joshua Stanton, a third-year rabbinical student at HUC-JIR in New York, was inspired by a recent SRF program with &lt;a href="http://www.advancingwomen.org/about/who/"&gt;Rabbi Joanna Samuels&lt;/a&gt;, the Director of Strategic Initiatives at &lt;a href="http://www.advancingwomen.org/"&gt;Advancing Women Professionals and the Jewish Community&lt;/a&gt; to write an article that appeared in the &lt;a href="http://www.tikkun.org/tikkundaily/2011/01/27/escaping-clergy-gender-norms/"&gt;Tikkun Daily&lt;/a&gt; and the &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joshua-stanton/escaping-clergy-gender-no_b_814867.html"&gt;Huffington Post&lt;/a&gt; about gender norms and the Jewish community. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Archetypes for men and women – and especially clergy – press us to conform to the norms dictated by our genders. People want religious leaders to look, sound, and seem familiar," Stanton writes. "But if rabbinic leadership requires authenticity, then I, like so many others, must be allowed to lead from within the gray space I live in, between the overgeneralized norms that seldom apply to anyone."  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Read the full article &lt;a href="http://www.tikkun.org/tikkundaily/2011/01/27/escaping-clergy-gender-norms/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8345012504428610292-4429009696946088837?l=www.srfellowship.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/feeds/4429009696946088837/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2011/02/gender-norms-and-clergy.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/4429009696946088837'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/4429009696946088837'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2011/02/gender-norms-and-clergy.html' title='Gender Norms and the Clergy'/><author><name>The Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02174074079676088703</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345012504428610292.post-3736149042218827793</id><published>2010-12-22T00:56:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-22T00:56:21.007-05:00</updated><title type='text'>SRF Gimmel Group Meets for First Time</title><content type='html'>David Spinrad, a third-year rabbinical student at HUC-Cincinnati and a member of the Gimmel cohort, shared these thoughts about the recent first gathering of his group:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"The hopefulness I felt while applying for the Schusterman Rabbincal Fellowship was replaced by the excitement of being selected as one of the eight recipients of the fellowship for 2010-2012. The excitement of being chosen was soon replaced by a surge of eager anticipation as I looked forward to meeting my fellow students and colleagues of Kvutzah Gimmel. After spending our first retreat together, after our first sessions of learning and getting a sense of the Jewish landscape and of the shape and scope of our fellowship, I am filled with a deep knowing that this experience and the learning opportunities I will be exposed to will shape my rabbinate and help me to serve the Jewish people with passion, commitment and love.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm getting a sense of how special an this opportunity is, and I intend to make the most of it by asking questions from our teachers and guides and by thinking deeply about the issues that face our collective Jewish future. I am most appreciative of the generosity of the Schusterman Foundation and thank Mrs. Lynn Schusterman for her contributions to the Jewish people."&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8345012504428610292-3736149042218827793?l=www.srfellowship.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/feeds/3736149042218827793/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/12/srf-gimmel-group-meets-for-first-time.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/3736149042218827793'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/3736149042218827793'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/12/srf-gimmel-group-meets-for-first-time.html' title='SRF Gimmel Group Meets for First Time'/><author><name>The Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02174074079676088703</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345012504428610292.post-3084540950599021811</id><published>2010-08-23T12:29:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-08-23T12:29:53.162-04:00</updated><title type='text'>How Rabbinical School is Like B'nai Mitzvah Tutoring....</title><content type='html'>SR Fellow Aaron Miller, an HUC-JIR student in Cincinnati, shares this reflection about his rabbinical school training to-date:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the many highlights of the Aleph cohort's most recent Schusterman conference in June was a panel of young, rising “superstar” rabbis who have been in the field for less than five years and spoke to us about what it was like to be newly-minted rabbis. I took pages and pages of notes (I really wish I had a tape recorder) trying to soak in everything they had to teach. What an impressive panel!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Going back through my reams of chicken scratch, I noticed that one of the nuggets of wisdom I wrote down from this panel was a quote from one of the young rabbis who said, “Rabbinical school really only gives you a year’s worth of ‘material’ to use at your first pulpit. At best. I remember my first year trying to calculate who would be at whatever function I would be leading to see if I could repeat something I already said!”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It got me thinking: if rabbinical school only teaches us “a year’s worth of ‘material’… At best,” then what is the point of rabbinical school? Five years of rabbinical school, and we only get one year’s worth of “material?” It reminds me of a bar or bat mitzvah gone awry.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first thing I tell my b’nei mitzvah students is that a “successful” bar or bat mitzvah has almost nothing to do with how much Hebrew they get up on the bima and say on the “big day.” Why spend months of learning for one Shabbat morning if the next time you step into a synagogue is (God-willing) at your wedding? For me, a “successful” bar or bat mitzvah is one where my newly-minted Jewish adults love being Jewish and have started to create an active and enduring Jewish identity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a way, the question that I ask my b’nei mitzvah students is one that I’m asking myself right now. As I careen toward the HUC finish line, what has rabbinical school taught me that will endure beyond my first year in the field? Rabbinical school has exposed me to genres of texts I never knew existed. It has completely changed my approach to teaching and to Jewish education. I have even learned some basics about things like officiating life cycle events, hospital bedside manner, and fundraising. Most important though, these past five years have shown me that there is always, always, more to learn and have instilled within me enough love of Judaism and the rabbinate to continue learning throughout my career. (I hope!) For now, I think that a “successful” rabbinic education is one that infuses newly-minted rabbis with a love of Judaism and the Jewish people that will be forever a part of their lives. If I leave rabbinical school with only this love, I’d like to think I have been well-trained for my life as a rabbi, even after that first year in the field.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What do you think? What are the enduring components of a formative educational experience (rabbinical, Jewish, or otherwise)?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8345012504428610292-3084540950599021811?l=www.srfellowship.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/feeds/3084540950599021811/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/08/how-rabbinical-school-is-like-bnai.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/3084540950599021811'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/3084540950599021811'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/08/how-rabbinical-school-is-like-bnai.html' title='How Rabbinical School is Like B&apos;nai Mitzvah Tutoring....'/><author><name>The Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02174074079676088703</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345012504428610292.post-6454822626084713048</id><published>2010-06-28T20:03:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-28T20:03:03.293-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Meet the Third Cohort of the SRF!</title><content type='html'>The latest cohort of the Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship has just been announced! This is the third group of outstanding rabbinical students from HUC and JTS who have been selected to participate in this groundbreaking, collaborative program.  Over the next two years, the students will learn about ways to create a more welcoming, forward-thinking Jewish community and will sharpen their management and leadership skills.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Read all about the latest cohort &lt;a href="http://www.box.net/shared/7ie9j6ppvv"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.jtsa.edu/News/Press_Releases/2010_Schusterman_Fellows.xml"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(In case you missed it, take a moment to meet our &lt;a href="http://www.box.net/shared/rj3gz40lh1"&gt;Aleph cohort&lt;/a&gt; and learn more about the members of our &lt;a href="http://www.box.net/shared/2ih5bp0rma"&gt;Bet cohort&lt;/a&gt;.)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8345012504428610292-6454822626084713048?l=www.srfellowship.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/feeds/6454822626084713048/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/06/meet-third-cohort-of-srf.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/6454822626084713048'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/6454822626084713048'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/06/meet-third-cohort-of-srf.html' title='Meet the Third Cohort of the SRF!'/><author><name>The Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02174074079676088703</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345012504428610292.post-3928532031261889927</id><published>2010-06-10T18:08:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-10T18:08:33.141-04:00</updated><title type='text'>SR Fellow to be honored by Federation of Rockland County</title><content type='html'>Jesse Olitzky, a JTS student who is a members of the Fellowship's Aleph cohort, &lt;a href="http://www.jewishrockland.org/page.aspx?id=221369"&gt;will be honored this Sunday&lt;/a&gt; by the Jewish Federation of Rockland County for his outstanding work as an educator. Way to go Jesse!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8345012504428610292-3928532031261889927?l=www.srfellowship.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/feeds/3928532031261889927/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/06/sr-fellow-to-be-honored-by-federation.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/3928532031261889927'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/3928532031261889927'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/06/sr-fellow-to-be-honored-by-federation.html' title='SR Fellow to be honored by Federation of Rockland County'/><author><name>The Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02174074079676088703</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345012504428610292.post-462998377554448243</id><published>2010-06-10T17:57:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-10T17:57:38.667-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Getting Rid of the "Shoulds"...</title><content type='html'>Jason Fruithandler, a student at JTS, offered this reflection about the retreat for the Aleph cohort of the Fellowship that concluded today:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the retreat, we were asked to think about our vision for the Jewish world and part of mine was to remove the word "should" form our vocabulary.  Too often I find myself slipping into the mindset of looking at other Jews as what they should be.  It doesn't permit me to see who they are.  Worse, it creates expectations that will never be met or, will be met but only out of guilt.  However, when I am able to switch the mode of thinking from "should" to "can" I am able to see people for who they are.  Then my job is to show what opportunities and possibilities Judaism offer.  When my vocabulary switches I am able to present an exciting form of Judaism and it becomes the congregant's option to take part in the meaningful Jewish life I am describing.  My responsibility becomes crafting a picture, an image, an idea of how to live a Jewish life that is full of depth, seriousness, and subtlety.   My job becomes creating experiences that act as a window into the kind of experiences that make Judaism inspiring to me.  My vision for the Jewish people is one in which we approach our lives as Jews with the mindset of "what can be" rather than a mindset of "what should be."&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8345012504428610292-462998377554448243?l=www.srfellowship.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/feeds/462998377554448243/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/06/getting-rid-of-shoulds.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/462998377554448243'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/462998377554448243'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/06/getting-rid-of-shoulds.html' title='Getting Rid of the &quot;Shoulds&quot;...'/><author><name>The Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02174074079676088703</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345012504428610292.post-2829054645561608155</id><published>2010-06-09T14:40:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-09T14:40:28.881-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Learning from Those in the Field</title><content type='html'>The first cohort of Schusterman Rabbinical Fellows is currently participating in a retreat about life after seminary.  The following is a reflection from one fellow, Michael Fel, a student at JTS:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For the past few years, I’ve spent considerable time learning rabbinic texts, perfecting my prayer leading skills and how to engage the Jewish people.  While I’ve had some practical rabbinic seminars and sermon writing courses, I’ve actually never learned what rabbis do on a day to day basis.  Last night, we had the chance to hear the stories of three Rabbis: Moishe Steigmann of the Westchester Jewish Center, Sari Laufer of Congregation Rodeph Sholom and Neil Tow from the Glen Rock Jewish Center.   Hearing their personal stories and how they handled balancing their personal and public life, being the new rabbi and how to bring your fulll self to the pulpit will help me avoid the same pitfalls they experienced during their first years.  A very worth while 2+ hour session!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8345012504428610292-2829054645561608155?l=www.srfellowship.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/feeds/2829054645561608155/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/06/learning-from-those-in-field.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/2829054645561608155'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/2829054645561608155'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/06/learning-from-those-in-field.html' title='Learning from Those in the Field'/><author><name>The Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02174074079676088703</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345012504428610292.post-2982776353830249205</id><published>2010-05-26T12:56:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-26T12:56:08.563-04:00</updated><title type='text'>SRF Paves the Way to Other Collaborations</title><content type='html'>Collaboration between the various rabbinical seminaries is in the news...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As the JTA &lt;a href="http://http://blogs.jta.org/philanthropy/article/2010/05/25/2739322/more-on-the-jim-joseph-grant-to-huc-jts-and-yu"&gt;reports&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Partnerships have become a driver for JTS, which announced in early  May that part of its new strategic vision included finding new allies in  the education sector.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hebrew Union College has become a natural ally for the Conservative  movement’s seminary. The schools are in the third year of offering a  combined fellowship funded by the Charles and Lynn Schusterman  Foundation that brings together rabbinical students from both seminaries  for a joint seminar, and they also are now offering some joint classes  as part of their respective cantorial programs.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8345012504428610292-2982776353830249205?l=www.srfellowship.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/feeds/2982776353830249205/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/05/srf-paves-way-to-other-collaborations.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/2982776353830249205'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/2982776353830249205'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/05/srf-paves-way-to-other-collaborations.html' title='SRF Paves the Way to Other Collaborations'/><author><name>The Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02174074079676088703</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345012504428610292.post-3093229834838276705</id><published>2010-05-20T22:11:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-20T22:11:35.207-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Welcome to Sh'ma Koleinu--Voices of the Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: garamond; font-size: 14px;"&gt;It is my pleasure to share with you the voices of the Schusterman Rabbinical Fellows, students who are training to be future leaders of the Jewish community!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: garamond; font-size: 14px;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: garamond; font-size: 14px;"&gt;The Schusterman  Rabbinical Fellowship is a program for a select group of outstanding  rabbinical students (eight per cohort) from &lt;a href="http://www.huc.edu/"&gt;Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of  Religion&lt;/a&gt;  (Reform) and the &lt;a href="http://www.jtsa.edu/"&gt;Jewish  Theological Seminary&lt;/a&gt;  (Conservative.)&amp;nbsp; The program is designed to  create a cadre of Reform and Conservative rabbis who share a broad and  dynamic vision of communal leadership for American Jewry.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: garamond; font-size: 14px;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: garamond; font-size: 14px;"&gt;The SR Fellows  study leadership, collaboration techniques, and key issues in American  Jewry, learning from faculty at HUC-JIR, JTS, and outside  experts. Through semi-annual gatherings, monthly conference calls or  webinars, and informal exchanges, the SR Fellows examine management  methods, define personal visions for their rabbinate, and cultivate  strategies for drawing Jews who often feel marginal—including those in  interfaith relationships and those not affiliated with any Jewish  congregation—closer to the heart of the Jewish community.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: garamond; font-size: 14px;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: garamond; font-size: 14px;"&gt;The Schusterman  Rabbinical Fellowship Program is funded by the &lt;a href="http://www.schusterman.org/"&gt;Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family  Foundation.&lt;/a&gt; The &lt;a href="http://www.leadingup.org/"&gt;Center for  Leadership Initiatives, Inc.&lt;/a&gt;  (CLI), a private operating foundation  dedicated to developing Jewish leaders and promoting managerial  excellence throughout the Jewish community, has helped shape the  program.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: garamond; font-size: 14px;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: garamond; font-size: 14px;"&gt;We look forward  to sharing our views about Torah and the American Jewish community with  you!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: garamond; font-size: 14px;"&gt;L'shalom,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: garamond; font-size: 14px;"&gt;Rabbi Ellen  Flax&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: garamond; font-size: 14px;"&gt;Director, Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8345012504428610292-3093229834838276705?l=www.srfellowship.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/feeds/3093229834838276705/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/05/welcome-to-shma-koleinu-voices-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/3093229834838276705'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8345012504428610292/posts/default/3093229834838276705'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.srfellowship.org/2010/05/welcome-to-shma-koleinu-voices-of.html' title='Welcome to Sh&apos;ma Koleinu--Voices of the Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship!'/><author><name>The Schusterman Rabbinical Fellowship Program</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02174074079676088703</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
